Sounds like a petty tyrant. Given a little authority, it makes him somebody of importance. If you don't comply what does he suggest will happen? Will he report you to the fun police and have you arrested for having responsible fun? I suspect what happened somewhere along the way in this guys "growing up" is the boy in him died or has been shut off in a closet someplace. He is aggravating, but also someone to feel a little sorry for, because when the boy in him dies there isn't much of a living man left. That's what's so great about two wheels, it gives us a kind of inner balance between who we were and who we are now. It is why I am both 67 and 12 when I ride, smiling, smiling. I'm guessing this guy doesn't smile much. And that's sad.
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