That's probably the most tedious part of the whole buildup right there... getting the rag joint set up perfrctly... I liked your method of putting the bolts thru then setting it on cardboard so they're all pointing up then lowering the wheel onto it all...
I faught mine pretty good trying to get my hand thru the spokes, hold one of the 3 retainers, the rubber ring inside the spokes, then the rubber ring outside the spokes and finally get the sporcket with one bolt thru it to line up and go thru everything, then repeat with the botlts and retainers 3 more times, and finally repeat with the remaining 6 bolts... Then once that was all done, the fun part of getting it true to the wheel came into play...
You probably already did this, but you need to get all 9 bolts in and snug them down, then turn the wheel and look for side play, then go in and tighten the bolts where the high spot is, and keep repeating until it dont sway side to side when turning the wheel. I did the adjustment for straightness with the wheel on the bike and no chains installed.
The sprocket is then tightened down by giving each bolt a 1/2 turn at a time until it's on there nice and tight, spinning the wheel after each step tightening it down and making any last minute adjustments to keep it straight...
I'm quite the perfectionist but I've noticed that getting the side to side play in the sprocket under 1/8" is usually enough to keep from throwing the sprocket, it will move a little after it's been run so it may need some more adjustment at that time.