Sorry we ran you broke.
If you had waited a little longer, you'd have also been paying an elevated hotel room tax as well.
It's not getting any better. Believe it or not, tourist numbers are down and a lot of folks are losing their jobs. You guys are our main source of income so the powers that be are going to try and get as much out of y'all as they can. A tip. Never eat in the hotels or anywhere in the "resort" area. Kinda like Disneyland. Walk a mile outside the "resort" boundary and there's a nice Hometown Buffet for cheap eats.
There are only a handful of us in the islands so I'm not surprised you didn't see as many as you'd hoped. There are a number of reasons why there aren't more of us. Way too much to elaborate on. I tried and it ran several paragraphs. I erased them.
I won't contest you on what or where paradise is. It's all relative.
Paradise? Home. We live here. Our family is here. Most of us learned to make do with what we have. We even manage to find a few extra bucks to get into hobbies such as motorized bikes. It'll get worse. Most of our children move to the mainland for education or job opportunities and return only for a short vacation. Even with a good job, they can't save enough to move back and if they could, they couldn't find a job that can sustain a high mortgage.
From where I live, the beach or a mountain hiking trail is no longer than a 15minute drive. Same for large parks with bike/running paths with large fields for kite flying. Since I live just outside a military base, I get to meet people from all over the country. Most are very nice. Then there's the few who can't handle finding themselves a "minority" overnight. Me, I'm colorblind. They all look the same to me.
In our area, fruit trees abound in backyards and we all share or trade fruit when the crops come in. Mango, tangerines, Kona orange, lilikoi, papaya, lichee, etc. Even fisherman drive up here from the coast to peddle their fresh catch at bargain prices. Kona crab, fresh ahi or aku, mahimahi, etc. I even ride my ebike up to the local egg farm once every 2 weeks to buy our flat of XL eggs. The seller always says, "Thank you uncle and enjoy your fresh eggs." I even ride my ebike over to the weekly open market to buy fresh, locally grown veggies and some Filipino baked treats for the wife and daughter, always trying to jocky into a good position among the little old Japanese, Filipino and Chinese ladies to get the best quality produce. These old ladies show no mercy.
Summer is Bon season. A time during which the Japanese hold festivals to honor their dead ancestors. Every Buddhist church on the island holds a Bon Dance on almost every weekend during the summer. Lots of dancing, Japanese food, crafts and fun. Being Japanese is not required.
Like they say, when in Rome. You gotta get out on your own to see what Hawai'i is really about. Staying in Waikiki or taking tours isn't going to cut it. Maybe next time? Rent a car and get a B&B in Kailua or wherever. Ask your hosts what's happening with the locals. There's always something going on that a visitor would find interesting and you'll be spending way less money or, you can at least see where your money is going.