Just a heads up...
If you are having a problem with a drill-through mount's hole becoming elongated and/or motor mounts are cracking/you're suffering from mount fastener sheer - odds are it's not the mounting technique it's the vibration.
Rubber mounts do not reduce engine vibration, they can actually increase it - they only reduce what you feel in the bike's frame. The engine itself will actually shake more as the vibration isn't as diffused through the frame and this can lead to premature failure of the mounting hardware and other problems.
Odds are if there's so much vibration that stuff is breaking it's one or both of these problems - your motor mounts are loose (not torqued down enough and/or "soft" mounted), and/or the rear sprocket is offset. Slowly spin the rear wheel, if the chain tightens and loosens even a lil it'll cause a "wrenching" of the engine to the drive side much like an impact hammer - this is particularly bad if the chain doesn't have enough slack in it. With soft mounts this effect is amplified.
Rubber mounting your motor is tempting as it can make for a more comfortable ride, but you may be sacrificing longevity for that comfort. I wouldn't try it at all with the kit-supplied "rag-joint" mounted rear sprocket as those will never be perfectly aligned.