I am as honest as the day is long. you and the horse you rode in on if you keep scrutinizing me. I have done nothing wrong accept offer a free gas tank to a guy.
I think you're overreacting a bit. I read a few of your posts and it certainly doesn't appear to me that anyone is being rough on you. When you ask for advice/opinions, be prepared to hear both sides of the coin.
My wife got fired, lost her pension and lifetime medical care for both of us.
She expects to live life status quo and has two credit cards.
She smokes in the house, sleeps most of the day and doesn't do jack all day.
In fact, she told me to get a second job. Me, retiring after 32 years and now working 9 years for the state.
my shoulder still hurts. i have nightmares about the doctor clearing me for work and i'm still not healed and everyone expects me to climb right back up a tower, i can't lift my own weight up and don't have any tools.