I'm sitting here wondering if you have the right forum. The other bike forum under the former owner is the one you are describing. You would have been banned for this right off the top and would never have been allowed back under any name.
As a matter of fact it seems they took a lot of pride and joy it seems in doing this on a very regular basis.
I've been a thorn in the moderators nether regions more than once when involved in a few spirited debates. If they felt it was on a track that was going in the wrong direction they most certainly sent me a P.M. and asked me to put the train back on the track and slow it down. I never once felt that I was being put upon or being asked to do anything unreasonable.
Of course I try to follow the rule that the word, Tact, is were you can tell someone to go to H*LL in such a manner that they can't wait to get home and pack to get ready for the trip.
Just never could see where yelling, screaming and threatening made a person come out looking better than the person they were directing the yelling, screaming and threats at. Of course I've been wrong so many times in life that this would just be another one.
It may have been that you or whoever your talking about were one of the few that had a bad experience with a given vendor. The 5 other people who didn't and mentioned it have just as much right to say so as the person complaining.
This is what a forum does. It allows the free exchange of ideas between a group of people with the same interests for the benefit of all and no where did I find where it says that everyone has to agree with everyone else.
Thank you for your kind words for volunteer Fire Fighters. It sound like you are one also. I spent some years in my community doing that my self. It was very rewarding work.
Steve.