Update on my relay upgrade.
So the 20amp household switch was working with no relay but I wanted a push button one off to help with my forgetfulness. I bought the relay and got it working thanks the person who started this thread. Then I put a 12v pushbutton horn switch onto the bike. It went out immediately. Then I put on a 15amp household switch and it lasted a couple of days before it welded shut and forced me to a curb to stop it.
I am now setup with a 40amp relay, a 40amp circuit breaker, and the original 20amp switch. I am not sure that I am any better off but I got a lot more wires hanging on the bike lol. I had the switch go on a long steep uphill pull so it might be that the circuit breaker will let the bike run a little more than the fuses would. Getting a little heat through the relay and up to the switch. anyway one more try with this then it is going to be back to a controller for me. I have two laying around that will work fine with 24v.but they are only 500 watts so the motor will suffer a loss of speed and torque, I think.