frozenveins,
You asked about the lightning. The other online group I'm a member of is for lightning survivors. There are quite a few of us worldwide.
I operated a small fishing resort in north easterm Minnesota at the time... June of 1995. On a clear day out of a small, dark cloud bank a good ten miles away a single bolt of lightning struck at the resort and traveled through the ground and via a telephone into my left ear, exiting between my eyes, out the forehead and crown, leaving behind bleeding burns. It caused a traumatic brain injury, briefly stopped my heart so I was technically dead for a bit, unconscious for several hours and majorly screwed up my life. But I lived and to some degree recovered, quite a lot actually even though I'm disabled with a good bit of nerve damage. It pretty well cooked the front lobe of my brain with the microwave component of lightning energy, which is full band... light, sound, electric, microwave, infrared and whatever else there is. I have some cognitive difficulties especially with memory, but can read and write again. Have some trouble with partial paralysis in my feet and lower legs from Guillane Barre Syndrome (like polio) which probably had to do with the lightning damaged nervous system. That said, I don't think about it a lot, but try to help other survivors cope with the inevitable changes that come. For me it led to loss of the resort, my marriage and being kind of poor in the money sense. But I'm rich in other ways and have been aware of that this morning, being Thanksgiving... you know, counting your blessings and all. I lost in the physical realm, but gained in the spiritual. I have this forum and the friends I've made here and i have my good friend Aaniimoosh the Wonder Dog. I also have cool bike projects to work on and the great joy which comes from ridin' me motorbike with the dog in tow... woohoo! How rich is that?
SB