Personally I am running a solid mount with all stock hardware. A detail that I did see as I read through the posts is no comment of how effective the stock mount set up is without added hardware when it is installed exactly as intended. My frame geometry is tweaked to match the two concave mounting surfaces for 90% contact or better.
When the motor is nested into the crotch of the V it keys itself into place before studs even come into play. Any lateral twisting and axial twisting is inhibited by the two concave contact points working with each other. My studs are not so much holding the motor on as they are just keeping the relationship of the mounts in alignment with the frame so that the mounts do their job.
That being said, I did not want to use any media between the mount and the frame that would distort a good contacting fit. This is just my opinion, but I don't have broken studs or trouble with motor position.