This is a little late but in case you want to try again I'll suggest you leave more pipe from the flange. Retain some of the bend that was already there and that means you don't need a complete circular bend in the EMT.
I actually tried that at first...I had a good line/bend until I kinked it...and at that point I thought it would look cleaner if I had one lone pipe as appose to connecting further down, so I cut it then. If somehow I ruin the welding process, I'll order another one and start over.

As for connecting the conduit to the exhaust pipe, here is another suggestion. I 'swedge' the EMT. It doesn't take much to get it to slide over the pipe material and all you need is about 1/2". I TIG weld this connection using stainless steel filler rod. Of course I realize everyone doesn't have access to TIG and it isn't necessary. Your idea of brazing will work, just not as pretty. There are 'swedging' tools available but I made one from a pair of battery cable terminal spreader pliers. I heat the EMT then insert the pliers and squeeze while rotating the pliers inside the EMT.
That's a great idea! I'll have to look for a tool...or home made remedy, thanks!
Just in case you don't know this (if you do, sorry, just need to include this) But welding or brazing on EMT will expose you to potentially toxic vapors. The galvanized plating is not good stuff to breath when it is heated. Do it outdoors and with good ventilation.
Yes, thank you! I have read up on that very issue... I have a great vented mask (I use for paint/epoxy/fumes)...but am trying to avoid it brazing if possible. I may just take the pipe to an exhaust shop and have them weld it and be done with it.
Your idea to use conduit connectors might work but keep in mind that the 'stop' or that stamped ridge at the center is a weak area and prone to breaking under stress or vibration. Just be aware.
Thanks, I wasn't aware of that. I will need to look more into the swedging concept I think.