It's raining cats and dogs here so I can't ride but, I think I got it. Absolutely no tightening up and then becoming loose! I got as much wobble out that I could (the wheel is not very true). It appears very stable at the moment. I'll let you guys know how it goes when the weather is nice. I don't think the electrical would like the rain. :P
Yet again. Thanks you guys, you're life savers!