I use almost exactly the same method as HoughMade, although I have never used a torque wrench. I tighten mine down pretty tight with usually 3-4 threads sticking out past the nut. The biggest thing is to keep metal off ot the spokes, I learned this the hard way with seven spokes worn through...Kelly

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